Infertility can be a sad, and lonely condition. It isn't easily discussed, nor is it generally accepted as an officially diagnosed medical condition, such as heart disease, cancer, or diabetes, though in my personal opinion, infertility absolutely should be included on this supposed list. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM) declared that infertility is a disease as did the World Health Organization People suffering through infertility often have trouble accepting, as well as understanding, infertility. I know I originally laughed it off because I didn't know what else to do. I was so scared!!! It's not uncommon for friends, and family members to become uneasy when it comes to discussing this private and personal issue. Unfortunately, as much as your family, and/or friends, long to understand your situation, infertility is an internal issue generally met with some confusion.

As for me, it is a journey my husband and I are now on. We are trying to learn as much as possible as we struggle to conceive and at the same time I talk with friends (some of whom are struggling too) to help them understand what is happening. Infertility isn't something to be ashamed of (though I was inititally). I no longer maintain any fear of speaking openly about my infertility and find comfort when I can talk with others about it. My body's nobody's business but my own, and of course, the select few my husband and I have chosen to share our most personal information with. The freedom I feel now, after having spoken openly about my own fertility issues, has generously rewarded me with a great deal of peace. To be able to "teach" someone also brings me great reward.

Hopefully this blog gives people some tips on how to successfully discuss infertility with family, and friends along with some insight on what might go through on a daily basis.

Bottom line: I believe you shouldn't ever feel obligated to discuss your infertility with anyone, unless, of course, you choose to do so voluntarily. Allow yourself to feel sad, mad, happy, scared, hurt, etc. There will be alot of emotions that you'll be faced with. But each step of the way I believe we become stronger.

As I am forced to take this month off due to cysts I'm able to look back on the processes that we've done so far, gather more information all the while trying to "de-stress!". Of course the last is easier said than done :-)